Man or Woman of substance! Truly exist?

 Searching a Man of Substance as example!! 



I always taught myself to train my mind to be stronger than my feelings. But, I am facing the biggest dilemma that my son asked me ,"Have I ever seen a 100% perfect man or husband?"; then he can try his best to be him!!!!  The thing is that he observed our ( his parents) personalities belong to opposite poles, and that's why issues are first blowing up with troubles and later on both compromise to peace!

My dilemma is not confusion but a clear clarity that I never saw anyone 100% perfect in earth ; even not in any character of any religious scriptures; neither God's or men, nor Goddess or women! 

I know what is hunting my son that he is also under the male category that is never grown up children.  But yes, we females may not do everything right, but don't do everything wrong either; top of it, we correct ours and others mistakes by taking blame in our shoulder what never expect from men, and , here, I can say that men are doing proudly 65% to 90% wrong only....

Anyway, by self chattering; I found what to reply to my darling son.... Yes, I will simply tell him that there's no reason to look back when you have so much to look forward to! Moreover,  happiness is not available in the market. It's not ready- made. It comes from your own thoughts and actions; like I always forgive you all!! 

I am relieved now by getting solutions to resolve my darling's query.....

Love you all whoever read my blog.






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Anonymous said…
Hilarious Pubali.... but truth is there
October 15, 2024 at 4:02 PM
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