Rituals in in - laws family

Rituals in in - laws family


No friends believe that I have to put a huge ghunghat (ghomta / pallu to cover head) in Balaji's ancestral places and any auspicious time as I am bengali... So, I told my son to click pics as prove to my friends,  atleast who are in facebook😛😃😃😃😃.... Yes, it's rituals of my in-laws side that daughter-in-law  puts tikas (bindis / spots ) on doors to welcome  Maa Durga in the evening of Sashthi of Durgapuja; and before that she has to complete her sringer ( make-up with brand new attire) for 15 mins rituals🤦🏻‍♀️😃!! 

I still remember that she wanted to put Alta in my feet and I simply refused to save my white heels... and, Maa was not easy to give up; that's why she dragged me to Babubagan pujo where one parlor did instant Mehedi in my hand & feet!! But, I know that immense love are hidden in this activities....

Now, my friends give a glimpse on pics to realise how do I cover my head when I reach to Balaji's ancestral places.... you can see that I am fully sanskari bahu here with even neckpiece 😃😃😃😃. 

Shubho Shardiya to all🙏🏻❤️.







Comments

Anonymous said…
Anyway, you look amazing with ghunghat... believe me
October 9, 2024 at 10:08 PM
Anonymous said…
Looking gorgeous and with while doing rituals with this it cascades how much you value our tradition.
October 10, 2024 at 9:00 AM
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