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  Everything is Pre-Destined  It sounds very weired and odd that I stopped searching reason behind anyone including mine action, anything and everything happening around us, because my meditation helped enough in awakening where I know that Almighty (to me, Lord Shiva) have destined already behind the all actions and reactions game! Sometimes all I want is to drop everything and run away from my life, but I know it won't solve any problems. Sometimes all I wish is to reverse the time and put all work at pace perfectly, but I know it won't happen at all!! Then what's going to be there? Nothing, but I have to stay strong and tall to fight the odds...... Life(!) is so ironic, it takes sadness to know what is true happiness, and noise to appreciate silence and absence to value  PRESENCE....! So, it's perfectly okay to feel sad, angry, annoyed, frustrated, sacred or anxious, crying, emotional. No one have to be positive all the time. Even Maa Shakti or Tridev get emotional!!...

  Truth of Life Eras are getting over on many War! From politico to family to shelf... Anyone knows the peace found where? Found happiness if you extend the hand of help! Politics strays from home to society dwell, And effects miserably everyone's soul! Don't allow the ego, jealousy to swell. Never be afraid to ignore the troll. Be satisfy whatever have and enjoy,  Never put into the trap of manipulations! Ignore the missing part of convoy..... Start looking beyond imperfections! Start believing in destiny .... Any friend that turned into an enemy! Yes, our life is very short and tiny, Remember that one never deserve any..... Eat, love and pray and praise. Almighty is ready for all to bless.                                           Love to all, Pubali                                   ...

  A Blissful Sunday! I have to fight through some bad and boring days to earn best days of my life;  and thanks to my darling friend Shruti,  I cherished a best Sunday. I do believe that nobody including me is ever " too busy" , if they're interested, they'll make time, and, we, some friends agreed to bang on Sunday to be together; and, here, especially I thank Mangala as it's her anniversary and she put efforts to be with us!!  I'm so grateful for the handful of genuine friends I've collected over the years!! The love I have for them is soo deep that even I don't think they'll ever understand..... I end up here by thanking Shruti again for lovely togetherness and love to all my friends and dear ones. Hari Aum Tat Sat.

  Take care of your mental wellness! If a person is silent suddenly, it's a dangerous sign! Be one of those about that person , who can hear when he or she is quiet! The person is silent means he or she is either too much over thinking,  or tired of waiting that one day others will understand , other else could blow up anytime!!  Let her or him cry infront of you as the silencec inhibit their courage, spontaneity and made them falling apart and then crying inside.... To soothe the soul, just embrace the person with tight hug! One hugging solve majority of mental struggle magically.  Let's talk with the person who needs to see the world differently.  Love you all , stay well,  healthy, and well connected to each others.  Hari Aum Tat Sat ❤️🙏🏻🪷.

Spent a wonderful time with friends last evening! I'm so grateful for the handful of genuine friends I've collected over the years; and Nisha is one among them💖❤️. I just wanted to thank you, dear Nisha, from the core of my heart for your generosity in our amazing bond and loving friendship.  We all enjoyed the last evening togetherness loudly from games to the spread of yummy , delicious foods along with naustalgic 90's music. What a great party!  You really  know how to make good times happen. I don't know how to express this , but your warm hospitality and kindness have honestly  touched my heart❤️❤️. Love you all ,my friends 💖 💖 Hari Aum Tat Sat🙏🪷.

  Let's live in peace, not only rest in peace! Melancholy attitude what we say medically kind of  DEPRESSION!! Some love to stay in this  state to get sympathy from surrounded people, but majority are thriving to survive in this miserable mental uneasiness.  And, I definitely don't talka about them who are pretentious about this issue and later start their new start-up venture by saying that they went through same issue and making fool others to earn by saying that they  are worried about others mental wellness.  Well, if you want to trap in this and  spend more money and time to stamp on this mental state , then please go ahead for repeated counseling where they are sympathised (no empathy from any angle) with hefty bucks.  The first step to changing your life is changing your mind in some way. Look, nobody has much time to think your vulnerability,  not even specialists! Happiness you can share as people are ready to flow in happiness , but...

How is your Sunday? After promising my darling son that I will take him to Ganesh temple,  Shahakarnagar, Bangalore to Darshan lord Ganesh from opening door in the morning; I miserably failed as I had high fever due to fulfilling my guilty pleasure with vanilla ice-cream, topped with chocolate syrup @ 12:30am last night. Anyway,  with his gentle nursing with immense love, helped me to stand up on my own!! Great... isn't it? Though his cares are unconditional; but I wanted to reward with my experty easy culinary tips. My darling son or husband,  both don't prefer any food that served by saying " FUSION combination"; they have strong taste buds and want authentic food. So, I thought to make Portuguese rice with honey roasted rootsesery chicken legs..... And, done!! My son is happy,  so, I am ❤️❤️❤️.  How is your Sunday? Love you all whoever put efforts to read my blog.

Enjoy your life with self-soul ❤️💖 Happy people focus on what they have, and others are on mistakes of their missing!! And, missing someone is my heart's way of reminding me that I trust and love them... I love people who are direct even if you have a difference of opinions with me. At least I know where they stand without playing games!Lately, I understand that life is too short to worry about stupid things and not really to worry or regret or not let people bring me down! So, neither I can plan my life, nor I regret... I enjoy every bit of life with myself ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️... I must tell you that you all should have fun 💯 too! Hari Aum Tat Sat🙏🪷. Har Har Mahadev 🙏🪷.

  Awesome ME Today , I am going to talk about myself... I took long time (I am 48yrs+, now) to recover myself repeatedly as I use to fall down when others make me vulnerable by saying that I am wrong ! By thinking may be or may not be, I simply saddened deeply and use to hurt my own body and soul maximum, along with my husband, son directly  and passively my parents and my brother(as they love me immensely). Family and my kind friends always mentioned me as a very sensitive person, and, they always advised to ignore others view on me, when '"I am'" in my best. Instead of self-assessment,  I repeatedly evaluated and judged others view on me and saddened as I have seen that I do behave honestly and respect all, everytime; and expeced the same from others........ As a result,  I fell down into depression for a stretches of time. Why do I talk about this here? Because, I have seen that my dear ones is facing the issue till now, and unlikely, they don't have what I am ...