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Before blame any women,  please think of your birth history and your Mother! Wherever,  whenever discussion comes related to mythology; men are interested to talk about illicit relationships of women.... I doubt of anyone that could be any gender are thinking of own mother before conclusions!! Yes, our all gaalis/ foul languages are related to own mother and sisters what we drain to others without of thinking! That's called human Intelligence 😀.... Yes, neither you are wrong , nor right!! Women are objectifying as always for pleasure and increasing family trees..... I would prefer to blame the societal system and patriarchy! It's easy to blame Draupadi,  Kunti, Satyavathi, Ambika, Ambalika,  Tar... even Mother Mary and so on!! Till date, some religion allow to marry four women to men and other men have kept ( how dare to say a woman as kept... they dare because of our dual personality... we, women don't know our rights,  so, easy blame to women) Nothing to surp...

  Everything is Pre-Destined  It sounds very weired and odd that I stopped searching reason behind anyone including mine action, anything and everything happening around us, because my meditation helped enough in awakening where I know that Almighty (to me, Lord Shiva) have destined already behind the all actions and reactions game! Sometimes all I want is to drop everything and run away from my life, but I know it won't solve any problems. Sometimes all I wish is to reverse the time and put all work at pace perfectly, but I know it won't happen at all!! Then what's going to be there? Nothing, but I have to stay strong and tall to fight the odds...... Life(!) is so ironic, it takes sadness to know what is true happiness, and noise to appreciate silence and absence to value  PRESENCE....! So, it's perfectly okay to feel sad, angry, annoyed, frustrated, sacred or anxious, crying, emotional. No one have to be positive all the time. Even Maa Shakti or Tridev get emotional!!...

  Truth of Life Eras are getting over on many War! From politico to family to shelf... Anyone knows the peace found where? Found happiness if you extend the hand of help! Politics strays from home to society dwell, And effects miserably everyone's soul! Don't allow the ego, jealousy to swell. Never be afraid to ignore the troll. Be satisfy whatever have and enjoy,  Never put into the trap of manipulations! Ignore the missing part of convoy..... Start looking beyond imperfections! Start believing in destiny .... Any friend that turned into an enemy! Yes, our life is very short and tiny, Remember that one never deserve any..... Eat, love and pray and praise. Almighty is ready for all to bless.                                           Love to all, Pubali                                   ...

  A Blissful Sunday! I have to fight through some bad and boring days to earn best days of my life;  and thanks to my darling friend Shruti,  I cherished a best Sunday. I do believe that nobody including me is ever " too busy" , if they're interested, they'll make time, and, we, some friends agreed to bang on Sunday to be together; and, here, especially I thank Mangala as it's her anniversary and she put efforts to be with us!!  I'm so grateful for the handful of genuine friends I've collected over the years!! The love I have for them is soo deep that even I don't think they'll ever understand..... I end up here by thanking Shruti again for lovely togetherness and love to all my friends and dear ones. Hari Aum Tat Sat.

  Take care of your mental wellness! If a person is silent suddenly, it's a dangerous sign! Be one of those about that person , who can hear when he or she is quiet! The person is silent means he or she is either too much over thinking,  or tired of waiting that one day others will understand , other else could blow up anytime!!  Let her or him cry infront of you as the silencec inhibit their courage, spontaneity and made them falling apart and then crying inside.... To soothe the soul, just embrace the person with tight hug! One hugging solve majority of mental struggle magically.  Let's talk with the person who needs to see the world differently.  Love you all , stay well,  healthy, and well connected to each others.  Hari Aum Tat Sat ❤️🙏🏻🪷.

Spent a wonderful time with friends last evening! I'm so grateful for the handful of genuine friends I've collected over the years; and Nisha is one among them💖❤️. I just wanted to thank you, dear Nisha, from the core of my heart for your generosity in our amazing bond and loving friendship.  We all enjoyed the last evening togetherness loudly from games to the spread of yummy , delicious foods along with naustalgic 90's music. What a great party!  You really  know how to make good times happen. I don't know how to express this , but your warm hospitality and kindness have honestly  touched my heart❤️❤️. Love you all ,my friends 💖 💖 Hari Aum Tat Sat🙏🪷.

  Let's live in peace, not only rest in peace! Melancholy attitude what we say medically kind of  DEPRESSION!! Some love to stay in this  state to get sympathy from surrounded people, but majority are thriving to survive in this miserable mental uneasiness.  And, I definitely don't talka about them who are pretentious about this issue and later start their new start-up venture by saying that they went through same issue and making fool others to earn by saying that they  are worried about others mental wellness.  Well, if you want to trap in this and  spend more money and time to stamp on this mental state , then please go ahead for repeated counseling where they are sympathised (no empathy from any angle) with hefty bucks.  The first step to changing your life is changing your mind in some way. Look, nobody has much time to think your vulnerability,  not even specialists! Happiness you can share as people are ready to flow in happiness , but...

How is your Sunday? After promising my darling son that I will take him to Ganesh temple,  Shahakarnagar, Bangalore to Darshan lord Ganesh from opening door in the morning; I miserably failed as I had high fever due to fulfilling my guilty pleasure with vanilla ice-cream, topped with chocolate syrup @ 12:30am last night. Anyway,  with his gentle nursing with immense love, helped me to stand up on my own!! Great... isn't it? Though his cares are unconditional; but I wanted to reward with my experty easy culinary tips. My darling son or husband,  both don't prefer any food that served by saying " FUSION combination"; they have strong taste buds and want authentic food. So, I thought to make Portuguese rice with honey roasted rootsesery chicken legs..... And, done!! My son is happy,  so, I am ❤️❤️❤️.  How is your Sunday? Love you all whoever put efforts to read my blog.

Enjoy your life with self-soul ❤️💖 Happy people focus on what they have, and others are on mistakes of their missing!! And, missing someone is my heart's way of reminding me that I trust and love them... I love people who are direct even if you have a difference of opinions with me. At least I know where they stand without playing games!Lately, I understand that life is too short to worry about stupid things and not really to worry or regret or not let people bring me down! So, neither I can plan my life, nor I regret... I enjoy every bit of life with myself ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️... I must tell you that you all should have fun 💯 too! Hari Aum Tat Sat🙏🪷. Har Har Mahadev 🙏🪷.

  Awesome ME Today , I am going to talk about myself... I took long time (I am 48yrs+, now) to recover myself repeatedly as I use to fall down when others make me vulnerable by saying that I am wrong ! By thinking may be or may not be, I simply saddened deeply and use to hurt my own body and soul maximum, along with my husband, son directly  and passively my parents and my brother(as they love me immensely). Family and my kind friends always mentioned me as a very sensitive person, and, they always advised to ignore others view on me, when '"I am'" in my best. Instead of self-assessment,  I repeatedly evaluated and judged others view on me and saddened as I have seen that I do behave honestly and respect all, everytime; and expeced the same from others........ As a result,  I fell down into depression for a stretches of time. Why do I talk about this here? Because, I have seen that my dear ones is facing the issue till now, and unlikely, they don't have what I am ...

  Subho Deepavali  Deepavali  or Diwali or Kali pujo is the festival of lights, symbolising the victory of light over darkness and good over evil. We worshipped the main Deepavali in the darkest night of the year in the Kartik month (as per Hindu lunisolar calendar). May the divine lights of Diwali fill each and everyone's life with peace, prosperity, safe, healthy and happiness. Have a wonderful Diwali!

FRIENDSHIPS TO BUILT OR DEVELOPING NATURALLY!! Suddenly,  one ( uffs, few) started saying me that "Pubali, start making strong friends; otherwise,  you will be alone at old age and forced your life-partner to stay alone.... Really? To me, Friendships frequently develop through shared experiences in which the people involved learn that their association with one another is mutually gratifying. Some stay forever or departed in other ways and some separated as they are selfish!!!  Anyway,  I never judge the people with brain and accept all by my heart; and  very vocal of truth.... as a result find myself alone!!!! Jokes apart,  hope you all are doing well and happy Diwali.

  Kojagiri Lakshmi Puja : on Sharad Purnima  Kojagiri Lakshmi Puja is an auspicioKojagiri Lakshmi Pujaus day dedicated to worshipping Goddess Lakshmi during Purnima (full moon) in the Bengali / Hindu month of ‘Ashwin’. It is celebrated in the different states of West Bengal, Assam, and Orissa. Maa Lakshmi is known to be the Goddess of prosperity, and it is believed that on the day of ‘Ashwin Purnima’, the Goddess descends on Earth to abundantly bless all with prosperity and good health. The day of Kojagiri Purnima is also referred to as Sharad Purnima in some parts of India. The rituals of Kojagara Puja vary from community to community. Elaborate Lakshmi Puja is performed under the supervision of a priest. In my Sasural ( In-Laws family), we worship married women only by fasting wholday, and husbands are ornamentally sitting in the puja with full tummy. Jokes apart, at first we draw lots of alpana and Maa's PADA chihna ( feets) with rice flour mixing water, then place a stool/...

  Searching a  Man of Substance as example!!  I always taught myself to train my mind to be stronger than my feelings. But, I am facing the biggest dilemma that my son asked me ,"Have I ever seen a 100% perfect man or husband?"; then he can try his best to be him!!!!  The thing is that he observed our ( his parents) personalities belong to opposite poles, and that's why issues are first blowing up with troubles and later on both compromise to peace! My dilemma is not confusion but a clear clarity that I never saw anyone 100% perfect in earth ; even not in any character of any religious scriptures; neither God's or men, nor Goddess or women!  I know what is hunting my son that he is also under the male category that is never grown up children.  But yes, we females may not do everything right, but don't do everything wrong either; top of it, we correct ours and others mistakes by taking blame in our shoulder what never expect from men, and , here, I can say t...

Vijayadashami : final day of Navratri  This auspicious day, we bid farewell Maa Uma with her four children , and they are ready to return Kailash. Lots to say about this day; but I know hardly one or few read my blog. It's a saddened day to say goodbye, Maa Uma. Vijayadashami, also known as Dussehra or Dasara is celebrated to honor two significant victories in Hindu mythology: the victory of Lord Rama over the demon king Ravana and the triumph of Godess Durga over the buffalo demon Mahishasura. Bengalis celebrated in a unique way, but I am not interested to explain by seeing netizen bengalis chooses to make a regressive state by destroying ourselves!! Current ruling Government,  i.e., TMC Government, started the Durga Puja carnival of Kolkata, which is an annual extravaganza that brings together the city’s rich cultural legacy  and artistic enthusiasm. This grand celebration, which takes place on the iconic Red Road, is a special display that perfectly captures Durga Puja...

Durgatinashini, Mahishasurmardini : Maa Durga 🪷 Bengali Durga pujo is more to our emotions than spirituality! Yes, it's our biggest festival of West Bengal, India.  This year entire bengali society (worldwide) are celebrating with heavy heartedly as they are seeing violent,  heinous activities one after another for last few years. But from last November, they are observing all heinous activities reached to the educational institutions too! As, huge protests are on; they expected atleast one justice against Abhoya/ Tilottama.... with days passing by hopes are deeming off too!! Though Maa Durga is the epitome of triumph over malevolence; but we truly entered Kaliyuga's dark era.... we all are eagerly waiting for Lord Kalki. Let's hope for best. Anyway,  today is Astami to Bengalis and my son and husband woke up in the early morning to worship Maa Durga and went to Bharat Sevasram for anjali. Though, I skip the early morning part and worship Maa later at home, but went with...