Musafir

Name cannot be plagiarism I feel very much disturbed when saw someone who is very close to me is plagiarize my blog name Musafir without noticing me. I know that she is a copycat of my style from my childhood  , but name cannot copy , it's a offense .

I met an Angel I was returning home after finish my daily evening walk when I met a stranger , a 4/5 yrs girl who is studying Sri Rakum convent school in Jakkur at Jr Kg & her mother is a maid/cook of some of my neighbour. She came with her mother only, and waiting for her mother under securities supervision. They came from Basirhat, West Bengal. The baby girl talks clearly with sweat voice. She was carrying affectionately a one eyed red hair doll. I was quite smitten by her personality. But I went to her  for conversation for another reason. I have seen that she is busy in searching something infront of the gate very seriously. So , I enquired what about : Me: Hey! What's your name? ...... (no reply) Me: No name? Oh , you do not have any name, right?? Girl: giggling.... Did you see anybody without name? I am Srimati. Everybody call me Mithu at home. What's your name? Me: Pubali. Do you go to school? Girl: Hmm. I go to Sri Rakum School. Jr Kg. I am learning...

Best friendship day!! Is it? My darling babygirl, my niece Tinni wished me " happy best friendship day" by saying I am "Nobita" to her !  It's touched my heart with indescribable joy & happiness.  My Son Teetan & niece Tinni are both 13+ & Tinni is 5 moths younger . They fought each other for settling their superiority & peers equations!! Entire family is audience to taste all aura of kiddish arguments.  Only me, Boumoni & Baba ( their grandfather) are considered to their friends  as we are empathic to them.  I realized again  the moving of eternal time-wheel yesterday when I recieved the messege as I also consider  my Maa is my one of & first ever best friend till date. History repeats for me (even Teetan says I' m his best friend), & Boumoni too! The phrase " generation -gap" cannot barred friendship among two. It's emotions to understand each other emphatically. Though I don't understand any specific day ...

What a verdict for poor Afisha!! My eyes are burning in pain, disturbed , feel disgusted  & strongly oppose the court verdict of heinous crime in  Kathua where a 8 yr old babygirl Afisha drugged, gangraped repeatedly & then also those bustards not satisfied & bludgeoned her to death!! As I took out my precious time to cast vote, I have every right to know to our dear PM where is your stand Sir??? If you cannot stand for girls  by keeping aside your color of politics, then please stop echoing "Beti Banchao, Beti Podao"..., it's hurting our ears / hearts!! Disgusted, disgusted  & disgusted!!!! I want to know how so outspoken & social media active  Mrs Smriti Irani is quiet today why their ministers only had come out in support of the accused where the guilty deserve the most punishment under law, afterall  "justice" should be done in all cases!!! The court takes 1yr 5 months long to sentence only 3 monsters!! &  3others w...

Wake up! Stand up & Voicing for Own RIGHT! ! I feel it's high time to concern as Indian citizen about mixing politics with religion and nationalism with Hindutva. Being a citizen of democratic country, people have to freedom of expression about both of politics & religion. But one politician shouldn't be biased for one religious practice & opposed others.  As all the problems start from equating politics eith religion.  The biggest fuss of the largest democratic country, India , is symbolized as SECULAR COUNTRY!! Instead of healthy debate, why the politicians choose poking or spitting each other.... They sell to people ""hatred" so that they can hide themselves from facing the scarcity of anykind of development in any field of education, employment, farming, country infrastructure, safety, etc.etc .etc.... If one person is reading this, then please you also express your thought positively, you feel better, feel lite . Trust me that your thought...

  Pic: Cut-out from Bangalore Times, The Times Of India Elevated Corridor : Beda, Beda, Beda.... It's look nice that we started realizing the importance of Earth. Atleast Bangaloreans do. We, Bangalorean, clean lakes, planted more & more trees, trying to protect other living creatures. We don't wait to see  what authority is doing. We prefer to dirty our own hand to take care of Earth. Yesterday morning,  I witnessed another protest to save "Garden City". By chanting " Beda, beda", several hundreds of people include kids, teens, adults and even elders and some of their different pets, gathered at the Gandhi Statue at Sheshadri Road to protest the government's 100km Elevated Corridor what is slated to flatten 120 trees in Cubbon Park and many others in the city. The gathering was quite star-studded and got great media coverage too. Some of them said how they used to wear sweater throughout the year in the city in past years , but now we all...

My Skin responds adversely in this scorching  heat. Even Bangalore is humid now.... all the effects of wrong doing ( axeing the trees, increasing concrete jungles day by day)... I am sweting with exhaustion and feel like ants crippling movement through my spinal line   at back. Searching for clouds to check if rain god listen our prayer and is preparing for cool shower to the earth or not..... but I found a loner candy size little white cloud in the indigo sky.... Ohh GOD!!!!

WOMAN : a journey from Womb to Mankind.                                       We all are talking about empowering women, whereas we all forget that we all nurtured & grew by the  ambidextrous One , whom we call lovingly  Maa, Mom, Mamma, Amma, Mother, Ayee, etc. etc.  .....( according to our choice) Terrific to nothing, hopeless to everything  or genious to dumb , selfish to humanity..... whatever we are, were and will , thanks to our those ambidextrous ONE who sacrificed herself to build us strong to say today " let's take a resolution to make the women empowered to teach them raising their voice".... Instead of empowering women (as they are selfmade empowered creatures by the grace of nature's miracle law) , please focus to empower our humanity to save earth by respect , with respect and of respect. # We are strong enough to digest all humility and move forw...

     Vast Lands Devasted by Huge Populations! Me and my husband are best buddies to argue over the one point each time. Yesterday suddenly my husband asked me why the ancient great, enriched civilizations are comparatively backward as of now? What are the reasons? I am a simple apolitical housewife.  I tried to explain through my over- the-time experience.  At the end of each revolution, civilizations and corporations attain a plateau of comfort. They have too much at stake underlying nice infrastructure to attempt a new revolution.  The new revolution could shake heavily. Indians, live in unity in diversity, had lot of scopes of really good manufacturing that was not just industrialization.  They produced the fine textiles, but scoffed at cheap stuff produced by mechanization. Their brainchild production of ayurvedic concepts of herbal medicines , spices that patented and imported from abroad..... so on... By the time they real...

                        Bongs grand celebrations : Durga Puja! Lot of speculations are around the country why the BONGS start celebrating  (as I intentionally avoid the word worship) Durga Puja from Sashthi to Dashami!! It's funny to explain as many of us even don't know the details of Navaratri , i.e. DEVIPAKSHA!! According to religious belief   Durga Puja is known by different names and it  is being celebrated in different ways - Navaratri, Durga Ashtami, Maha Navami, Saraswati Puja, Dussehra, Ramleela , Akalbodhan and Vijayadashami. Devi is worshiped in three different forms of Durga, next three days as Lakshmi and the last three days as Saraswathi. The 10th day is called Vijayadashami.  We Bongs stand apart from crowd proudly..... more than devotion, meaningless so called strict rituals, we prefer to celebrate this, as ocasion to get together among scattered family members , friends and enj...

Maa DURGA : symbol of empowerment twitter: mbandyop@gmail.com   facebook @ provabteetan@yahoo.com                                          Maa DURGA : symbol of empowerment Maa DURGA!! She symbolises   empowerment among people! She comes for the realisation of the meaning of “ Fittest Survive”.   It’s our fundamental right to survive freely,   personally and   professionally at home, working place and even in the society. But nothing comes to you easily!! The practice of gaining freedom and power to do what you want or to control what happens to you is the empowerment. To me,   Maa Durga is that PRACTICE to gain empowerment to fight back against to all devils (i.e. Mahisasur) ; that can be personal i.e. domestic violence, harassment at workplace, bu...