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  Subho Deepavali  Deepavali  or Diwali or Kali pujo is the festival of lights, symbolising the victory of light over darkness and good over evil. We worshipped the main Deepavali in the darkest night of the year in the Kartik month (as per Hindu lunisolar calendar). May the divine lights of Diwali fill each and everyone's life with peace, prosperity, safe, healthy and happiness. Have a wonderful Diwali!

FRIENDSHIPS TO BUILT OR DEVELOPING NATURALLY!! Suddenly,  one ( uffs, few) started saying me that "Pubali, start making strong friends; otherwise,  you will be alone at old age and forced your life-partner to stay alone.... Really? To me, Friendships frequently develop through shared experiences in which the people involved learn that their association with one another is mutually gratifying. Some stay forever or departed in other ways and some separated as they are selfish!!!  Anyway,  I never judge the people with brain and accept all by my heart; and  very vocal of truth.... as a result find myself alone!!!! Jokes apart,  hope you all are doing well and happy Diwali.

  Kojagiri Lakshmi Puja : on Sharad Purnima  Kojagiri Lakshmi Puja is an auspicioKojagiri Lakshmi Pujaus day dedicated to worshipping Goddess Lakshmi during Purnima (full moon) in the Bengali / Hindu month of ‘Ashwin’. It is celebrated in the different states of West Bengal, Assam, and Orissa. Maa Lakshmi is known to be the Goddess of prosperity, and it is believed that on the day of ‘Ashwin Purnima’, the Goddess descends on Earth to abundantly bless all with prosperity and good health. The day of Kojagiri Purnima is also referred to as Sharad Purnima in some parts of India. The rituals of Kojagara Puja vary from community to community. Elaborate Lakshmi Puja is performed under the supervision of a priest. In my Sasural ( In-Laws family), we worship married women only by fasting wholday, and husbands are ornamentally sitting in the puja with full tummy. Jokes apart, at first we draw lots of alpana and Maa's PADA chihna ( feets) with rice flour mixing water, then place a stool/...

  Searching a  Man of Substance as example!!  I always taught myself to train my mind to be stronger than my feelings. But, I am facing the biggest dilemma that my son asked me ,"Have I ever seen a 100% perfect man or husband?"; then he can try his best to be him!!!!  The thing is that he observed our ( his parents) personalities belong to opposite poles, and that's why issues are first blowing up with troubles and later on both compromise to peace! My dilemma is not confusion but a clear clarity that I never saw anyone 100% perfect in earth ; even not in any character of any religious scriptures; neither God's or men, nor Goddess or women!  I know what is hunting my son that he is also under the male category that is never grown up children.  But yes, we females may not do everything right, but don't do everything wrong either; top of it, we correct ours and others mistakes by taking blame in our shoulder what never expect from men, and , here, I can say t...

Vijayadashami : final day of Navratri  This auspicious day, we bid farewell Maa Uma with her four children , and they are ready to return Kailash. Lots to say about this day; but I know hardly one or few read my blog. It's a saddened day to say goodbye, Maa Uma. Vijayadashami, also known as Dussehra or Dasara is celebrated to honor two significant victories in Hindu mythology: the victory of Lord Rama over the demon king Ravana and the triumph of Godess Durga over the buffalo demon Mahishasura. Bengalis celebrated in a unique way, but I am not interested to explain by seeing netizen bengalis chooses to make a regressive state by destroying ourselves!! Current ruling Government,  i.e., TMC Government, started the Durga Puja carnival of Kolkata, which is an annual extravaganza that brings together the city’s rich cultural legacy  and artistic enthusiasm. This grand celebration, which takes place on the iconic Red Road, is a special display that perfectly captures Durga Puja...

Durgatinashini, Mahishasurmardini : Maa Durga 🪷 Bengali Durga pujo is more to our emotions than spirituality! Yes, it's our biggest festival of West Bengal, India.  This year entire bengali society (worldwide) are celebrating with heavy heartedly as they are seeing violent,  heinous activities one after another for last few years. But from last November, they are observing all heinous activities reached to the educational institutions too! As, huge protests are on; they expected atleast one justice against Abhoya/ Tilottama.... with days passing by hopes are deeming off too!! Though Maa Durga is the epitome of triumph over malevolence; but we truly entered Kaliyuga's dark era.... we all are eagerly waiting for Lord Kalki. Let's hope for best. Anyway,  today is Astami to Bengalis and my son and husband woke up in the early morning to worship Maa Durga and went to Bharat Sevasram for anjali. Though, I skip the early morning part and worship Maa later at home, but went with...

Maa Siddhidatri : the Goddess of Supernatural Powers The ninth day of Navratri, dedicated to Maa Siddhidhatri. Siddhi means supernatural power or meditative ability, and Dhatri means giver or awarder. Maa Siddhidhatri is seen sitting on a lotus or riding a lion. It's believed that one side of Lord Shiva’s body is that of Maa Siddhidatri; therefore, he is also known by the name of Ardhanarishwara. According to Vedic scriptures, Lord Shiva attained all the siddhis by worshiping this Devi Maa Siddhidhatri.  Maa Siddhidhatri has eight forms of Siddhis – Anima, Mahima, Garima, Laghima, Prapti, Prakamya, Ishitva and Vashitva.  It is believed that the goddess offered these siddhis to Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva to help them carry out their duties. She additionally allowed them nine treasures and ten types of supernatural powers.  In Hindu sacred texts, Maa Siddhidhatri is described as the goddess of accomplishment and salvation. In her four hands, she holds a conch shell (Shankh), ...

  Maa Mahagouri ; victory over Evil: 8th day of Navratri  Ashtami or the eighth day of Navratri is considered the most auspicious day of the festival. Ashtami symbolizes the victory of good over evil. It reminds us that righteousness will always triumph over malevolence. On this day, Maa Mahagauri is worshipped. After defeating demon Mahishasura, Maa Parvati entered in the Ganga river and as she took a bath, her dark skin washed off entirely and she came back out as a beautiful golden woman, wearing white garments and apparels, so she gained the epithet "Mahagauri". Maa Mahagauri is known as the symbol of purity, chastity and tranquility. All the nine forms of Maa Durga are worshipped on this day. The eighth day of Navaratri marks a transition to the calm energy of Mahagauri. It's a time for introspection, purification, and renewal. People seek to cleanse themselves of impurities and negative influences through devotion. Devotees worship Maa Mahagauri to get blessed with...

Rituals in in - laws family No friends believe that I have to put a huge ghunghat (ghomta / pallu to cover head) in Balaji's ancestral places and any auspicious time as I am bengali... So, I told my son to click pics as prove to my friends,  atleast who are in facebook😛😃😃😃😃.... Yes, it's rituals of my in-laws side that daughter-in-law  puts tikas (bindis / spots ) on doors to welcome  Maa Durga in the evening of Sashthi of Durgapuja; and before that she has to complete her sringer ( make-up with brand new attire) for 15 mins rituals🤦🏻‍♀️😃!!  I still remember that she wanted to put Alta in my feet and I simply refused to save my white heels... and, Maa was not easy to give up; that's why she dragged me to Babubagan pujo where one parlor did instant Mehedi in my hand & feet!! But, I know that immense love are hidden in this activities.... Now, my friends give a glimpse on pics to realise how do I cover my head when I reach to Balaji's ancestral places.... y...

  Kalaratri : Sahastrara Shakti Maa Kalaratri, who is prominently worshipped on the seventh day of the Navratri festival, is considered the fiercest and most ferocious form of Goddess Parvati. According to mythology, Goddess Parvati took the form of Maa Kalaratri when she removed her golden skin to kill demons. Maa Kaalratri rides a donkey, has open hair, a complexion as dark as a night, and wears a garland made of Narmund, or human skulls. Goddess Kaalratri is portrayed as having four hands, a heavenly-shaped body, and her left hand carrying a torch and cleaver while her right hand is in the giving and shielding mudra. On her forehead, the Goddess has three eyes. She exudes strength and vitality. When she breathes in, flames shoot out of her nostrils. She is the most dangerous form of Maa Durga, yet her sole method of protection is against demons. The worshippers of Maa Kaalratri bestow onto her the wishes they have in mind. Although on many occasions people think that Kali and Ka...

Katyayani : the Goddess vanquisher of evil forces. The sixth day of Navratri is devoted to the warrior Goddess, Maa Katyayani, who personifies the fiercest incarnation of Goddess Durga On the sixth day of Shardiya Navratri , devotees worship Maa Katyayani, a powerful incarnation of the Maa Parvati. The color associated with this day is red. Katyayani is worshipped as the vanquisher of evil forces.  She is the most violent form of Goddess Parvati, also known as the Warrior Goddess. The eighth chapter of the Devi Mahatmya narrates Durga's battle with Raktabīja as a part of her battle against the asuras Shumbha and Nishumbha, who had disenfranchised the devas from Svarga. Katyayani is an aspect of Mahadevi and the slayer of the tyrannical demon Mahishasura. She is the sixth among the Navadurgas, the nine forms of Hindu goddess Durga who are worshipped during the festival of Navaratri. She is depicted with four, ten, or eighteen hands. This is the second name given to the goddess Adi P...

  Skandamata: The Goddess of Vishuddhi Chakra  Today is 5th day of Navratri. Maa Skandamata is the fifth form of the Maa Durga ( Parvati) and is worshipped today. The word "Skanda" means Kartikeya, Commander of Deities army; who is the son of Lord Shiva and Maa Parvati. In the form of Skandamata, portrayed her frequently riding a furious lion with 6 headed child Kartikeya (Murugan) in her lap; where Lord Skanda's six faces is symbolic of the six senses. Skandmata has four arms, rides a lion and is seated on a lotus. She also holds a lotus in two of her hands, carries Lord Kartikeya with the third hand and blesses all her devotees with the fourth hand. On this auspicious day, we seek the blessings of Maa Skandamata, the nurturing goddess who represents strength, protection, and the power of unconditional love. By worshipped Skandamata, brings success, knowledge, and wisdom. Yellow is the color associated with Skanda Mata, and offerings of yellow clothes and flowers are mad...

  Kushmanda : 4th day of Navratri Kushmanda is worshiped on the fourth day of the festival of Navaratri .Her name signals her main role: Ku means a little, Ushma means warmth or energy and Anda means cosmic egg. We chant her by the mantra "सुरासम्पूर्णकलशं रुधिराप्लुतमेव च। दधाना हस्तपद्माभ्यां कूष्माण्डा शुभदास्तु मे॥" Maa Kushmanda has eight hands and is thus also known as Ashtabhuja Devi. It is believed that all the power to bestow Siddhis and Niddhis are located in her Jap Mala. Deity Kushmanda possesses the power to live inside the blazing sun, hence the name Kushmanda. She is credited with creating a world with her divine and radiant smile.  Maa Kushmanda is the goddess of the green-hued Anahata Chakra, or heart chakra. Today, we offer naivaidhya (offerings), including curd, milk, and halwa as prasad. Worshipping Lord Shiva and Brahma after the Kushmanda Puja is considered auspicious. The fourth day of  Navratri is associated with the colour green, which represents ...

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Chandraghanta Devi : 3rd day of Navratri   Devi Chandraghanta is one who establishes justice and discipline in the world. She is a form of the goddess Parvati; her name means one who has a half-moon shaped like a bell. She is depicted as a serene goddess who is associated with peace, purity, and forgiveness.  She has ten hands, a radiant golden complexion, and a crescent moon on her forehead. She is often depicted riding a lion or tiger. She holds a variety of weapons, including a trident, mace, spear, bow, arrow, discus, and sword. Her fifth right hand is raised in Abhaya Mudra (reassurance), and her fifth left hand is in Varada Mudra. Her third eye is always open, signifying her readiness for battle against evil. Worshipping of Maa Chandraghanta is in the morning after bath. Offer akshat, turmeric, kumkum, sandal powder, flowers, garland, incense, lamp, naivedya, fruits etc. and, chant the worship mantra. Before, Aarti to Maa, we offer sweets made of milk to Maa Chandraghant...

  Brahmacharini : 2nd day of Navratri  Maa Brahmacharini is the second aspect of the Navadurga forms of Mahadevi and is worshipped on the second day of Navaratri. Maa Parvati, in her unmarried and ascetic form, is known as Brahmacharini, a testament to her unparalleled devotion and unwavering commitment to Lord Shiva. Maa Brahmacharini Devi was born to the Lord of the Mountains, King Himaya and his wife Queen Menavati. As she was the daughter of the mountain (Parvat) god, she was called Parvati. From her childhood, she heard many tales of Lord Shiva from Sage Narada. Being thus influenced, she was determined to attain the Lord as her consort. Thus, she left her home and strictly penanced to get Lord Shiva as her husband. In reality, Goddess Parvati was the reincarnation of Lord Shiva’s first wife, Sati. Brahmacharini, means a devoted female student who lives in an Ashrama with her Guru along with other students. If, I break the word 'Brahmacharini', then I can simplified the m...

Have a blessed Navratri : Day-1    Shubho Navratri to all. Matripaksha started already, and Maa Shailaputri,the first form of Maa Durga, worshipped on the first day of Navratri. She is considered one of the most powerful forms of Maa Durga and is said to ride a bull named Nandi. Navratri is not just a festival; it's a celebration of the feminine power that resides in each of us. In the embrace of the divine, we find our true strength. Let's realize this and celebrate the festival.

Ardhanarishvara: the fundamental root of Advaitha. Ardhanarishvara is a combination of three words “Ardha,” “Nari,” and “Ishwara” means “half,” “woman,” and “lord,” respectively, which when combined means the lord whose half is a woman. It is believed that the God is Lord Shiva and the woman part is his consort Goddess Parvati or Adishakti. Ardhanarishvara represents the synthesis of masculine and feminine energies of the universe (Purusha and Prakriti) and illustrates how Maa Adishakti, the female principle of God, is inseparable from (or the same as, according to some interpretations) Lord Shiva, the male principle of God, and vice versa. The union of these principles is exalted as the root and womb of all creation. One can state that even in gender definition, this aspect became the fundamental root of Advaitha. The Ardhanariswara form emphasizes the mental approach of reconciliation of the principal cult deities of Saivaism and Saktism. This shows that the supreme Deity is the ...

Tanot Mata Mandir and Indo - Pak Border Today I found my Rajasthan trip pics that we visited last December ( 2023).No no... I am not giving details of our trip; neither I share all our pics to bore whoever is seeing my post,  nor I give details of Rajasthan tourism, as all can get online in details!! I wanted to show my son Provab and husband Balaji the historic place is  "Tanot Mata Mandir" and Indo pak Border, i.e., Thar desert ( Jiyai, Cholistan Desert, Jaisalmer). As per the oldest Charan literature, Tanot Mata is an incarnation of divine Goddess Hinglaj Mata and as many other Goddesses of the region such as Temde Rai, Karni Mata, Deg Rai and Khodiyar etc. She was also born in Charan caste and lived her life as warrior sage; thus Tanot Mata is a Goddess of War. Or else,  as bengali,  I can say Tanot Mata is one of Incarnation of Adishakti, i.e., Ma Parbati or Ma Durga.    Tanot Mata Mandir was first attacked by the Pakistan Army during the Indo-Pakistan...